also found this, the third paragraph discusses the shoes and claims the term is used for both mens and womens varieties...apparantly Wallace Simpson famously wore them. The author clearly is unimpressed with the shoes no matter what their definition or origin.....
I found these paragraphs here:
http://forum.wordreference.com/showthread.php?t=1056313&page=2&s=d80447adb52ea3ef4e90e170ca9d87f3
2. Topical Words: Co-respondent /k@UrI'spQnd@nt/
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The British government has for some years been trying to make the
language of the civil law more easily comprehensible to the layman
(see
http://wwwords.org?CLCW). The last attempt was only partially
successful, the force of tradition being too strong for words like
"writ" or "plaintiff" easily to vanish in favour of "claim form"
and "claimant" outside formal proceedings. Last week the government
proposed changing terms in the family courts, which years ago were
called divorce courts. The intermediate judgement, the degree nisi
(from the Latin meaning "unless") is to be called a conditional
order and the final decree absolute will become the divorce order.
The person called the co-respondent becomes the second respondent.
This last change hardly seems an improvement, though I guess the
aim is to remove some of the historical stigma attached to the
role. "Co-respondent" came into the language following the 1857
Matrimonial Causes Act to describe the person who has sex with an
adulterous spouse. Divorce was then difficult to obtain and often
resulted in a public dirty-laundry-washing spectacle as matrimonial
matters were thrashed out in open court, providing juicy reading
for readers of the gutter press. Jerome K Jerome bitterly noted in
1899 in Second Thoughts of An Idle Fellow: "Now we are passionate
lovers, well losing a world for love - a very different thing to
being a laughter-provoking co-respondent in a sordid divorce case."
Marcel Berlins commented in the Guardian on 25 February: "Legally,
the word covers both men and women, but the public image of a co-
respondent was usually that of a somewhat spivvy, silver-tongued
individual with a questionable past, charming his way into the bed
of an innocent young wife. In fact, before the days of 'no-fault'
divorce, you risked not only social death but financial ruin if you
were a co-respondent: you could be sued by the angry cuckold and
have to pay large sums in damages." This view that co-respondents
were male is made explicit in the definition of "co-respondent" in
the Oxford English Dictionary, unchanged from its first drafting
around 1893: "In a divorce suit, a man charged with the adultery
and proceeded against together with the respondent or wife."
Even if government proposals stamp out "co-respondent" from the
legal system, it will be retained in "co-respondent shoes", those
two-tone horrors that for most men went out with the lounge lizards
of the 1930s (they're also called spectator shoes). A G MacDonell
wrote in How Like an Angel in 1934 about "Those singularly
repulsive shoes of black and white which are called co-respondents
(quite wrongly called, incidentally, for co-respondents at least
get or give some fun and these shoes do neither)." In view of the
male bias of the term, it is notable that one of the most famous
wearers of the shoes was the divorced Wallis Simpson, whose love
affair with Edward VIII caused his abdication in 1936.
The shoes are said to have got that name because they were often
left outside hotel rooms, ostensibly to be cleaned, as an easily
identifiable signal that hanky-panky should be assumed to be taking
place within. This was because the only permitted cause for divorce
at the time was adultery by one partner. For a couple to arrange a
divorce in an amicable way, one member - it was commonly the man -
had to be caught in flagrante with another woman. A minor industry
grew up in which housemaids in hotels augmented their meagre wages
by giving evidence of having found the supposedly adulterous couple
in bed together. This origin for the shoes' name could just be a
tale, of course. The true source may be just that in the 1930s they
were the fashionable wear of a spivvy male type, which the Belfast
Telegraph described in a piece of April 2007 about the cad: "Once
you could tell him from 20 yards away by his Tattersall check
waistcoat. Or the co-respondent shoes. Or his driving gloves. No
gentleman would be seen dead wearing any of them, and the thing
about the cad is that he lacks the instincts of a gentleman."
Though fundamental changes in divorce law has long since abolished
this mucky and degrading business, the term has survived. Indeed, I
am told that co-respondent shoes are making a comeback. Their name
will provide a continuing link to a part of British social history
thankfully now over.