The Vintage Vendeuse
VFG Member
I frankly admit that I don't think I've bothered to read every eBay seller's TOS when I make a purchase... in fact, I'm not sure I've ever read a seller's TOS... and I think that's fairly common. If I like and want an item, I simply just try to buy it. I figure the system will stop me if the seller has rules preventing my purchase.
It sounds like you have some potential buyers who are very enthusiastic about your item, they may not be "intentionally" trying to violate your rules.
I've also felt rather complimented when I receive inquiries about ending an auction early, though I rarely did so... it's exciting to know I have a popular and desirable item. I also feel it's natural for a buyer to try to get a good deal and perhaps make rather lowball offers just to see what happens.
Personally, I consider this all somewhat common buyer behavior and I don't assume the buyers are "suspicious".
(I still want to cry over some Royal Doulton 1950s china I missed out on. About 15 years ago, I purchased a lovely 1950s tea set for four which was a simple, but elegant pattern I had never seen before, and was not shown on the replacements website. Seller willingly shipped it from England to me in the USA. About five years later, I found a different seller in England had listed the matching berry bowls! I excitedly hit the BIN button and it blocked me, the seller didn't ship to the USA. I checked their other dozen or so listings, all of different china and all eligible to ship to USA. I politely messaged the seller, thinking the listing for my berry bowls had mistakenly blocked US buyers. No, the seller responded by changing all their listings to block US buyers. Over a decade later, I still feel the frustration of not having those darn berry bowls! I was willing to pay the asking price and any appropriate amount for shipping but the seller stood firm. )
It sounds like you have some potential buyers who are very enthusiastic about your item, they may not be "intentionally" trying to violate your rules.
I've also felt rather complimented when I receive inquiries about ending an auction early, though I rarely did so... it's exciting to know I have a popular and desirable item. I also feel it's natural for a buyer to try to get a good deal and perhaps make rather lowball offers just to see what happens.
Personally, I consider this all somewhat common buyer behavior and I don't assume the buyers are "suspicious".
(I still want to cry over some Royal Doulton 1950s china I missed out on. About 15 years ago, I purchased a lovely 1950s tea set for four which was a simple, but elegant pattern I had never seen before, and was not shown on the replacements website. Seller willingly shipped it from England to me in the USA. About five years later, I found a different seller in England had listed the matching berry bowls! I excitedly hit the BIN button and it blocked me, the seller didn't ship to the USA. I checked their other dozen or so listings, all of different china and all eligible to ship to USA. I politely messaged the seller, thinking the listing for my berry bowls had mistakenly blocked US buyers. No, the seller responded by changing all their listings to block US buyers. Over a decade later, I still feel the frustration of not having those darn berry bowls! I was willing to pay the asking price and any appropriate amount for shipping but the seller stood firm. )
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